Ok I've seen a few similar threads but none of them were recent so just wanted some feedback on this because it seemed kind of mixed. My entire bridal party is from out of town, and I wanted to have kind of a girls night out and have fun the night before the wedding. The hotel we are blocking has a really nice martini bar and lounge so I thought it would be nice to enjoy it with friends. Only 2 of my bridesmaids know each other so I doubt anyone is planning anything. But from reading other posts of similar situations, people have said this is rude.
I didn't have an engagement party or a bridal shower, and wedding planning by myself has been super stressful and not fun at all. I just thought it would be nice to hang out with friends that I haven't seen in a long time (I moved right after college graduation) but after seeing some people's responses to others wanted to have a girls night out, I'm concerned that my friends would think it was rude or tacky.
I definitely don't want to just finish up the rehearsal dinner and go back up to my room the night before my wedding while I have all my friends in town, but if inviting people to come out for a girls night is considered rude, I might just do that. Just wanted some feedback/suggestions. Thanks.