Invite Issue - Bachelorette = Wedding Rant

SP29

Wow, that is a pricey wedding! Of course when you include ALL the expenses, the number looks "worse", though everyone should consider the total price, because the cost per guests really isn't just the price of the plate of food! I agree that you shouldn't feel guilty about having what you want as long as you can afford it. 

As per the bachelorette, I would subtly mention to your mom that she should slow things down a bit, but you can tell her now, "I wanted to keep the party small, so I would not feel comfortable inviting Bre as she is not a close friend of mine". 

Jen4948

Tell your mom, "Mom, I'm sorry, but I do mind inviting Bre to the bachelorette party as she's not being invited to the wedding.  While I like her, we aren't close and FI and I had to make some difficult decisions about who is and isn't invited to our wedding. Also, I need my wedding plans not to be discussed with Bre anymore.  This is non-negotiable."