Since I've been out of work for awhile FI agreed to let one of his friends rent out our spare room to help with rent. It was fine at first, but I am either going to kill him or go live in my car!
It was fine at first, but now I feel like he is taking advantage of us.
When he moved in the plan was he'd chip in for groceries and I'd feed him dinner. So far its been 4 months and I haven't seen a dime towards groceries. Luckily he decided he no longer wants/needs dinner because I forgot he told me he'd be playing video games Friday and he got pissed that I told him dinner was ready.
He drinks a LOT. Which I'm not going to judge I easily finish a bottle of wine a night, the problem is he buys a 6 pack and then goes through whatever beer or wine we have in the fridge. I even found out the Marsala wine I have for cooking isn't safe!
In addition to the booze everything in the house seems to be free game. I can specifically tell him leftovers are going to be used for tomorrow dinner or FI's lunch and yet they are gone by morning. He used my nice kitchen scissors to cut his hair. He used one of my measuring cups as an ashtray and melted/burnt the rim of it.
Last night was my final straw he started lecturing me about making dinner and not doing the dishes after. No one else does dishes regularly except for me, but I do them the next day. After an hour of cooking I want to leave the kitchen. He went in forever all because he did dishes once last week and I made dinner and didn't clean up until the next day.
I've already been over this situation for awhile and FI agrees, but until I'm working again we need the extra rent money.