Ok, so my MOH has decided to plan her wedding for the week after mine, after accepting the position of MOH. Personally, I feel like she is going to be too busy planning her own wedding to participate in mine. Am I being too mean when i think about replacing her? Or should I wait for her to realize she can't do both? I say can't because she is bi polar and doesn't handle stress very well. Maybe she should be a BM instead?
On another note, the same girl wants me in her wedding. Which is country themed, cowboy boots and lacey frilly dresses and hats and all. I have never owned or worn a pair of cowboy boots (cowgirl?), and definitely don't think it is fair to have to pay for the $200 pair she wants us to wear. I love her, but I feel like she's doing too much. In my wedding, the dress is required, and the shoes optional. If you don't like the shoes I chose, feel free to get/wear a black pump that you already have. Hair and nails up to them, but I'd prefer nails the same color. So if I need to go buy a bottle of nail polish and we all share it, fine
Any ideas on what I should do in these situations??
Any help is appreciated!