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Re: Wonder if this would have "wowed" me before TK! YES!

  • ViczaesarViczaesar member
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    LAM524 said:
    @lindausvi....The venue wants a headcount by May 1st (23 days before)! Off the top of my head, I dont remember the original headcount date but it wasnt May 1st. (I think it was somewhere around 2 weeks before). I sent an email and left message inquiring about the change. My original wedding coordinator went on maternity leave in March so we've been experiencing some changes/a few new requests from this new one. One of which is giving me some stress/disappointment. She wants the names and #'s of the people that WE will have set up any decorations out where the ceremony will be. I had some nice ideas and things I wanted done out there but now, I just dont feel comfortable putting anyone to "work." Originally, we were told to drop everything off and they would take care of it. So, I probably will not do anything outside. Thank goodness the venue is at least setting up the guests chairs! :)
    The venue doesn't need a headcount until May 1, and you're already past the RSVP date?  It's only April 16.  Your RSVP date was too early.



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  • LAM524LAM524 member
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    Really? I was afraid of that. I think I posted on TK questioning it or stating it. I screwed it all up. For some reason I thought I had to considered the blocked rooms deadlines at venue and other hotel. One being April 15.  Its too late now, but what would have been an ideal deadline?

    And now I will ask...when do I send out the rehearsal dinner invites for May 23rd?

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  • PrettyGirlLostPrettyGirlLost member
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    edited April 2014
    LAM524 said:

    Really? I was afraid of that. I think I posted on TK questioning it or stating it. I screwed it all up. For some reason I thought I had to considered the blocked rooms deadlines at venue and other hotel. One being April 15.  Its too late now, but what would have been an ideal deadline?

    And now I will ask...when do I send out the rehearsal dinner invites for May 23rd?

    Is everyone local that will be going to the RD? If so I would think a week in advance is fine. Everyone in the wedding should already be expecting for the RD to happen on the 23rd.


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