Most of my extended family is in Ohio, and I'm getting married in my home state in Florida. I knew most of my elderly family members (my grandmother, great aunts and uncles) likely wouldn't be able to come because they're all in their mid to late 80's, and travelling would be hard on them. But I got declines from my aunt and cousin today. Of my extended family, I'm closest to them and really wanted them there.
Now I'm sad.