I used to get upset over my father trying to get to me, now I just laugh. Everyone can see how childish he is, and I know, they are no longer judging me. I have made it so my father can no longer post messages on my wall, and I have turned off my chat to him, making him less likely to private message me. The other day he posts a comment to a picture on my twin sister's page saying, "I can't wait to see my grandson and granddaughters in July!" My sister messaged him and asked him if he had changed his mind and was coming up for my wedding. He will be in town for the date that my wedding falls on, but he won't be going to the wedding. He will be in town for my older sister's daughter's first birthday. (I no longer speak to my older sister.) He plans on staying with my twin sister (my MOH).
He said he would like to see me, while he is in town, but I probably won't be able to, because I will be busy. Hi.... I won't be able to see you because you're an asshole that won't come to my wedding. Lol. It is amazing how he acts dumber than a box of rocks to his own wrong-doing. My twin sister told him, that she will not allow him to put her in the middle of his shit-stirring. She told him going to my wedding was more important than being there to see her newborn daughter.
She said she does not want to see him, because he is just doing it to make me feel slighted that he is seeing everyone else for their big moments except for me. My sister rocks. I don't expect her to cut off relations with him, because it is my beef with him. But she knows he is just doing this to get to me, and she won't allow herself to be a weapon against me. I laugh at his childishness. I used to be upset, but I have more than enough loved ones to make up for a fair-weather father (I am being nice, today.)