Hi y'all,
A good friend of mine asked me to be her maid of honor in her wedding in 2016. Just to give some back story- we've known each other for about 6 years, we see each other MAYBE once a year and she has 4 other sisters. I accepted the MOH position, knowing what it entails. I' was a MOH years ago for my best friend, and did everything by the book. When this offer came along, i was a little confused as to why me.
Now that I've accepted, the bride is asking me to drive two hours to her house, drive her to all appointments, and shoots down every suggestion I offer. We have very different tastes, and I recognize that this is her day not mine- it would just be nice if she wasn't such a bitch saying "ew- why that idea", when she doesn't like what I suggest.
Being that I live so far away, and have very little money to spend on this wedding, I feel like I'm being taken advantage of. Now she wants me to plan the entire shower and bachelorette party on my own with no help from her family. Which means she wants me to fund it all.
At this point, I honestly don't even want to have any part of the wedding planning at this point, and I feel strongly that this wedding will eventually destroy our friendship. The things she is asking of me is ridiculous for someone who lives so far away. Example: driving to her house 2 hours away- pick her up to drive another hour for an appointment- then drop her off and drive home.
Is this bridezilla, or am i overreacting? I just wish I could just decline the honor and just go as a guest.