Over the years I've gathered many of my friends' and family's addresses - and I've also lost them, lol. Also, my area recently went through an address change so even if I still had the addresses, I would need to update them anyway. I sent out a message on Facebook to most of the people I intend to invite, requesting that they e-mail me their addresses. (I didn't want them posting their address in the group conversation, for their own privacy.) However, not very many of them have gotten back to me. Luckily, the closest people have, but some people haven't. I certainly don't expect them to get back to me within days, but within a couple of weeks would be reasonable. If they don't, though, how do I proceed? Do I remind them? If so, how many times should I have to remind them? Do I let it go and figure that if they really wanted to come, they would have given me an address for their invitation? If they don't want to come, for whatever reason, that is absolutely their prerogative but I don't want to chase them down for the address in either case.
What am I to do?