So we pick a venue which I am in love with. However, the venue only holds 120 people. It's a pavilion in one of the parks. Now we have a guest list of 140 people. My FI family have more then half that list with just family. Do we start cutting family members? Plus my FI mother put some family friends on there, plus kids. I don't think it's fair for me to start cutting my people on my side of the list if it only takes up 1/4 of the list. We just added his dad's side and his friends. I finally brought the list down to 140 people. Now what to do?