Just thought I'd leave this gem here for you ladies...

hanjoy

http://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/2459lv/update_does_it_matter_if_there_ever_is_a_legal/

My favorite of her responses "....Houses are just expensive where we live and wedding money will really help."

Going from r/weddingplanning to Yhe Knot etiquette is some serious culture shock. 

Simply Fated

Is this the follow up to that woman whose Fi was still married and didn't want to get a divorce because then he'd have to pay child support?


This soap opera is getting better and better...

pinkshorts27

Oh, I couldn't resist commenting. 

misshart00

This doesn't even make sense to me. I'm so confused.

hanjoy

YES! It is response to a woman worried because her "FI" wasn't divorced from his first wife for "child support reasons" (turns out he was lying to her and all their friends and family)

16maybeless

Ugh it's a whole new level of terrible. I actually feel really, really bad. There is obviously such a lack of insight and self-awareness. It's not just an etiquette issue. This girl is getting played.

SammiNJonni

"now he sees how easy it was to break up with her instead of getting a real divorce."

Why is this lady not seeing the red flags.

DaisyMaeMommy

Northrend

Hehehe, the Lucille Ball PPD Bride has given this lady advice!  Yes, she was from reddit.

banana468

This dude is just an ass. I wouldn't trust anything he does. If she actually has a diamond ring from him she should get it appraised to see if he hoodwinked her there too.

jdluvr06

Wow.... Just wow

chibiyui

Wowsers. 

CMGragain

I think that guy might be my ex-brother-in-law! 

[Deleted User]

Um. Wow.

312Emily

Simply Fated said:

Is this the follow up to that woman whose Fi was still married and didn't want to get a divorce because then he'd have to pay child support?


This soap opera is getting better and better...

Yeah. I posted an update as well over in Snarky Brides. The comments are pretty amazing in the update post since everyone is like "wtf."

trulymarvelous

That is totally horrifying.  That poor girl

She really needs a wake up call and realize he's a totally scumbag.

Maggie0829

I couldn't even read it because the layout is fucking horrible!  Talk about a wall of text.

APDSS22

He wants to have a wedding with her, but he's not going to get legally married until he sees how it works out?  Umm...dude.  RED FLAG! 

fleur1870

APDSS22 said:

He wants to have a wedding with her, but he's not going to get legally married until he sees how it works out?  Umm...dude.  RED FLAG! 

That's what shocked me!  If you're not sure it'll "work out," why are you getting married?  You get married because you are sure it's gonna work out!

alpacalunch

RebeccaB88

That has GOT to be my ex she's speaking of.