I am just looking for advice and counsel here because I am at the end of the rope with one of my MOHs.
Lately it has been nothing but headaches and stress with her and I can't seem to find any footing.
The first problem I have is that she had told me she invited her new boyfriend to come to the wedding even with knowing my Fiancé and I have only a select number of people we can invite and so we have had some rules established to make it as fare as possible, one of those rules being established long term relationships only.
Secondly while at my wedding/reception she has said she would like to partake in some items that I am not okay with having at my wedding. At all. I told her there would be a bar avaliable and she had no reason for these other items to be anywhere near the wedding and the response I got from her was that I was wrong and I didn't want her drunk at my wedding I would rather have her like she wanted to be because when she drinks she has no filter et al.
The third problem is that she is refusing to take part in any way of my bachelorette party because she apparently doesn't agree with one of the events that is taking place (news to pretty much all of us who know her). I have told her we have modified the plans so people can still come and enjoy parts and take part of this day and also the cost went down considerably but she doesn't even seem to be willing to compromise.
Last but certainly not least she has started to complain to me about the cost of her dress. She is complain that she has lost too much weight and now needs it severely altered and that she has to pay extra for a bigger size that she doesn't need.
My girls have not been asked to do much, they were not asked to contribute anything but time to the bridal shower. I have told them that I have gotten them their jewelry and all they need for shoes is "something silver that they will be comfortable in". Again I just don't know what to do I feel like I am being bullied about the most important day of my life. I she has officially driven me to tears on more than one occasion.
Thanks for listening.