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wedding postponed

FI and I have some issues we need to work out, so decided to postpone our wedding.  It will still happen, just will take a little longer than originally planned.  Best to work out the kinks now though!

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  • Rebl90Rebl90 member
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    So sorry to hear that, but glad you are taking the time to make things right! Hugs to you
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  • thanks :)  it's the best thing to do, and we don't love each other less for putting it off for a while
  • Sorry to hear, good luck with everything! You have such a great attitude towards the situation. 
  • thanks, I appreciate it!
  • You are being very wise.  Traditionally, an engagement was a time to test whether or not the couple was compatible.  Better to work out issues now, rather than later.  You are making a very mature decision.  Good luck!
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  • Sorry to hear this, best of luck working it out.
  • phiraphira member
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    Sorry to hear that you're postponing the wedding! Not because it's a terrible thing to do, but because it's very stressful to deal with. You're making an incredibly difficult and incredibly wise decision.
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  • I'm sorry to hear this!  But I'm glad you are taking the time to work out the stuff you need to.
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  • Vibes that whatever is best and healthiest for both of you is what will happen!
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  • That's what my daughter did. They were able to work through their issues in couples counseling. Today, they're a happily married couple. 

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  • Wishing you both the best of luck as you work though everything. Sending you many hugs and good vibes!
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  • KGold80KGold80 member
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    I'm very sorry to hear this. Wishing you the best!
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  • Sounds like you guys have a great perspective and are making a wise choice. {{hugs}}
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  • FiancBFiancB member
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    That is a very hard and mature decision. Wishing you the best.
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  • thanks everyone, it's much appreciated!
  • Sorry to hear it's on hold, but very glad you two were wise enough to face whatever difficulties you are having. Sending lots of happy thoughts your way! Wishing you both the best! 
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  • Thank you, it's much appreciated! :)  We'll be looking into a pre-nup, which is something that both of us want.  We'll see how it all goes, and I'll keep you ladies updated! :)
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