My fiance and I were suppose to get married in August but we have delayed it a few months. We are getting married at my church in Gloucester and can't decide if we should have a full reception complete with DJ, etc or just an intimate dinner with friends and family? We are saving to buy a house so are concerned with cost. However, I am concerned that our nieces and nephews would be bored without dancing, a cocktail hour, etc. Suggestions?