When are you sending your STDs and invites??
Our guest list is primarily OOT so we are planning to send our STDs in July... Invitations probably in January.
Our venue requests a "soft" attendance count 30 days in advance (which would be February 26th), final count 10 days before. I'm struggling with our RSVP date - should it be February 20th (to allow for calling non-RSVPers) or should we push it back to March something, and just give them an educated guess on February 26th based on what we have/have not received at that point? Thoughts??