As this is the board i post to most often ( and you all are actually kind!) i am wondering if i was wrong in not doing a & guest on the invite - here's the situation:
Long time friends, since i was a teen & used to babysit their kids (i'm in my 30's). Consider them to be like parents (i've been introduced to their friends as their "other" daughter). They divorced this year (about 2 months ago, maybe?), but it was peaceful & they are still great friends. I seperatly invited both of them (& their kids who also got their own invites). I addressed the invites to just them. The mom rsvp'd for 2 adults. I just never expected her to already be seeing someone! And I am SURE she knows I invited her whole family.
We are okay on the numbers, so its okay, but I am not sure if I feel bad for not adding a plus 1 for her. Although I have to admit she is the last person I would have thought would rsvp for more than what was on the invite...