So I'm throwing a bridal shower for one of my BM's that's also getting married this year (obviously ha). Anyway, she's specifically asked that she not be forced to open gifts in front of everyone. I feel like that will come off as really rude and told her that some of the guests might take offense. She just said that she really doesn't feel comfortable with it (as it was "weird" at her first shower), and that people won't care. The guest list is over 50 so that's a lot of gifts that will just sit on a table. I feel like I'm going to look like a terrible host, but as it's not about me, I wanted to see if ya'll think it's fine just honoring her wishes and not doing a gift opening at all...thoughts?