I'm usually just a lurker, but I have a serious problem on my hands.
I'm having a party of 4 girls, maybe 6 if my sisters will join.
We're going to call my girls MOH, Rachel, Monica and Pheobe.
Rachel and Monica HATE each other. Rachel dated one of Monica's exes, and one of Moncia's boyfriends cheated on her with Rachel. They can't even look at each other. Rachel has already said that if Monica even looks at her the wrong way there will be blood shed.
Pheobe and Monica were friends, but now hate eachother.
MOH tries to love everyone, but doesn't like weddings.
NOW. If you put my sisters in - Monica hates my oldest sister (not sure why) and my oldest sister hates her too (probably because Monica hates her)
I can't imagine my big day without any of them. During our first meeting is it okay to give everyone a short "I love you but don't cause drama or you're out" speech (with more tact than that, obviously). I need advice.