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Thank you's question

They threw a shower for me at work and everyone chipped in on a group gift.  I do not have a majority of my co-workers home addresses, can I leave thank you's on their desks?

Re: Thank you's question

  • I think that would be fine.  I would however make sure to leave them all at the same time, so someone doesn't think you forgot about them.
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  • For a work shower you don't need to send thank yous to their home address. Hand written cards would be lovely, but I think you can get away with an email.
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  • Yes. 
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  • It would also be acceptable to write one group thank you and post it somewhere (break room) that everyone would see it.  Individual notes are always better, but a group thank you note in this instance would be okay.
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  • KGold80KGold80 member
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    ashleyep said:
    For a work shower you don't need to send thank yous to their home address. Hand written cards would be lovely, but I think you can get away with an email.
    I disagree with this. Why are coworkers less worthy of a handwritten thank you note than anyone else? If they put the time and money into throwing the shower and purchasing a gift, they should be worth the effort of a handwritten note.
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  • grumbledoregrumbledore member
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    KGold80 said: ashleyep said: For a work shower you don't need to send thank yous to their home address. Hand written cards would be lovely, but I think you can get away with an email. I disagree with this. Why are coworkers less worthy of a handwritten thank you note than anyone else? If they put the time and money into throwing the shower and purchasing a gift, they should be worth the effort of a handwritten note.





    WHOAH hell to the no is an email appropriate.  However, hand delivered thank yours are perfectly fine.  In fact, I think the gesture of a hand-written note is even
    more appropriate in the work setting, where:

    1)  People who contributed are unlikely to even be invited to the wedding, and

    2)  You have to see these people every day - pissing off even one of them with a thoughtless gesture is just not worth it.

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  • ashleyepashleyep member
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    edited May 2014
    KGold80 said:
    ashleyep said:
    For a work shower you don't need to send thank yous to their home address. Hand written cards would be lovely, but I think you can get away with an email.
    I disagree with this. Why are coworkers less worthy of a handwritten thank you note than anyone else? If they put the time and money into throwing the shower and purchasing a gift, they should be worth the effort of a handwritten note.





    WHOAH hell to the no is an email appropriate.  However, hand delivered thank yours are perfectly fine.  In fact, I think the gesture of a hand-written note is even more appropriate in the work setting, where:

    1)  People who contributed are unlikely to even be invited to the wedding, and

    2)  You have to see these people every day - pissing off even one of them with a thoughtless gesture is just not worth it.



    Fair enough, my bad. I've never received a hand-written thank you card from a work shower. Heck, I've never even received a personalized email from a work shower. Showers at my company consist of giving the secretary $20 and signing a card. And then getting out of working for an hour to go to the break room. Hardly much effort or time on my part.
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