am worried this will because a big issue if I do not step in BUT this is whats up:
My parents are paying for 99% of my FI and I's wedding, we JUST found out that his parents want to give a little toward the wedding. How awesome, right?!
Welllll, I was under the impression my FI would put the money toward something HE wanted, like as an extra. Alcohol/Band?? Something like that. BUT now my mom keeps saying SHE knows what she is going to do with the money HIS parents give toward our wedding....ummm whaaaat? My mom keeps making strong suggestions to where the money is going to go. Am i wrong to think we should have a say....or his parents??? Either way, its that much less they have to pay on something.