So I've been engaged for a year and right away asked my friends to be bridesmaids. And right away I know I wanted everyone to wear cowboy boots, therefore they have had a year to save up. Well my wedding is 16 days away and two days ago one of my bridesmaid told me (her fiance is a groomsmen) that she didn't know how they were going to afford his boots. Today I asked her if she has figure it out to see what I could do to help and she told me that they'll just have to bite the bullet and buy them which sucks because he'll never wear them again. It's like she's trying to make me feel guilty, and honestly I do feel bad but at the same time they've had a year to save up, and now with just 16 days left there isn't much I can do. Also, the same bridesmaid refuses to get ready with us because she has a two year old at home ( which I told her she was more than welcome to bring him), which complicated things for me. I wanted certain pictures of us while getting ready but she won't be there, she plans to show up at our first look, I honestly feel like she isn't being very fair. Am I being unreasonable and what should I do?