I'm looking for etiquette advice on gifts. I'm MOH in my best friends' wedding - and I have to admit that she's driven a good sized hole into my bank account. I realize that shouldn't matter, but let's be honest, it does.
I bought a gift from the registry for her shower. I paid for the limo and hotel rooms for the bridal party for the bachelorette. Now, for weddings in the past I have usually given a shower gift and a $100 check at the wedding. I usually think that's a pretty even-to-plus side ratio. For this particular wedding, I already know that $100 is not even close to covering the meal, let alone falling in on the plus side.
What is the most appropriate thing to do?