I'm getting married in 4 months and I picked my maid of honor almost a year ago. She's gone dress shopping with me and bridesmaid dress shopping with me. She absolutely hated shopping for bridesmaids dresses and didn't take my opinion into consideration at all. It's was all about her, but that drama is over now. That's the only participation she's had in the planning process so far.
As we get closer I'm hoping she's going to take a bigger role but it's not looking that way. No bachelorette party planning, no bridal shower planning, no offering to help me with ANY planning, not even asking me in conversation how planning is going. Then she tells me she's planned all these vacations near my wedding date so she's tight on money (making me feel like they are more important). I asked her a year ago to be my maid of honor, is it odd for me to think she would've saved some money over the past year knowing what comes along with the deal? She says may not even be able to do a bachelorette trip (that I'm planning myself). Needless to say I'm really disappointed and sad. We've been best friends forever and I would just like the feeling that she's actually excited and happy for me. What can I do to possibly get her more into it without being pushy?