Hi ladies, I tried to find the answer to this question by searching old threads but all I could find were comments pertaining to a reception. Without a doubt, we're covering booze for that. But my question is about the Meet & Greet the night before. We are having a DW and are expecting about 70 OOT guests. On the day of the wedding, we're going to do a cocktail hour with hors d'oeuvres after the ceremony and then a full reception with plated dinner, open bar with premium alcohol, entertainment, etc. Additionally, because so many people are making the trip to celebrate with us, I'd like to host a dinner the evening before the wedding as an extra "thank you" and where we also have a chance to visit with people as they arrive in town. We're paying for the wedding weekend festivities ourselves but won't be able to afford two full receptions. The package we're considering for the Meet & Greet is at a restaurant and includes dinner, dessert and non-alcoholic beverages. We think there will be about 60 people that will probably come if we send invitations (Nothing has been decided on for sure yet). Personally, I would rather buy 60 guests dinner the night before the wedding and
have some time to spend with them and thank them for making the trip
than to
pick up the tab for dinner and drinks for JUST our wedding party after
rehearsal. Since this would be at a restaurant, cocktails could be available for people who wanted to drink but do we have to offer to pay for the booze two nights in a row or would it be acceptable to just let them know what the menu choices are and let them order their own alcohol if they want it? I don't want to start the weekend off on the wrong foot.