Is anyone doing Garter toss and Bouquet Toss? I'm not sure how many people do this anymore.
Our wedding is super small (44 guests max) and a lot of guests are already married. Only a handful would participate in these traditions and I feel that draws attention to them they may not want. My friends are shy that way.
FI doesnt want to do a garter toss because it isn't to his taste and he doesn't want to draw attention to the single men either for the same reason that they may feel uncomfortable
I thought about taking my flowers and garter and building a shadowbox to put in your bedroom instead. I bought the garter on etsy before FI told me he wasn't up to the garter toss. It's super pretty and I think it would make a lovely keepsake.
I was just curious about others on here and if they were having these traditions or not, or if there were other traditions people are forgoing. We are also having a first look, since we will have pictures done beforehand so we can join guests for cocktail hour.
Thoughts?