I just found out that wedding I'm going to is, in fact, a pretty princess day. This is a really good friend that I gave more credit than this. We had been planning to attend their wedding next month, and were very excited about it, but then a few days ago, lo and behold, pictures appeared on Facebook of their actual ceremony that happened LAST month.
I guess there were some legal hoops because they wanted to "self officiate" their marriage rather than have an officiant because they are not religious, but the state they are having their "wedding" in (I hate having to put it in quotes now!) does not allow for that. I can sympathize with that. They want to have their ceremony the way they want it and didn't want to be constricted by weird technicalities. But if that was the case then WHY would they put on a suit and a white dress and have someone take pictures of their (in their eyes) non-wedding and put them on Facebook where all their guests can see??
I'm still going to go. I'm sure it will be fine. But I'm definitely feeling a way about it that I didn't want to feel and if they were going to have a PPD why couldn't they have just kept their mouths shut about it so we would have all thought we were seeing the real thing?
Would you guys still go in this situation? Would you do anything or just roll your eyes and feel duped?