I am getting married in MD this October. My MOH has started planning my bridal shower for August but hasn't mentioned a bachelorette party. The shower will take place in MD where I am from originally, but I currently live in NC. It would be extremely helpful to have the bachelorette party take place the same weekend of the shower to save me and some of the out of state guests another trip to MD.
I am wondering if it is appropriate to bring up the bachelorette party with my MOH. If I mention it, I don't want it to come across that I expect her to plan a bachelorette party, but she hasn't mentioned anything about it. I don't know if she is able or interested in planning one. I am also concerned that if it is planned too late/people find out about it too late, very few people will be able to attend because of vacations, etc. in August. Anyone coming from out of state also needs enough advance notice to be able to attend.
I would appreciate feedback on the etiquette concerning this.