So hubby and I decided SUUPER last minute that we would do our vow renewal ceremony and reception in August because we will be married for 5 years. I"ll spare you all the details but when we were married we had zero money and didn't even go to church. Fast forward 5 years and we belong to an amazing church , have great friends and want to have a celebration. The good news is that we found a caterer and venue that work together and have a date that works for us available! It would be Sunday the 17th . ... SO we are in the early stages of coming up with a list of about 100 people. We haven't signed on with the caterer/venue just yet because we hit a few snags... 1st thing is that we have about 4 OOT guests ( too short notice for them maybe) and Second: Hubby and I both have like 60 cousins in the 2-17 year range. yeah we don't think we can have a reception with more than half of guests being kids...... I was totally on board on calling it an "adult only reception" but my mother says that many of my aunts will be offended and wouldn't show up ( It must be a Mexican thing) Seriously all the Mexican weddings I have been to there are always younger people. I seriously would love to invite them all. They don't bother or annoy me in any way I just seriously cannot afford it...... So all that aside I found a cheap $200 dress from Davids bridal , I'm making my own arrangements , my close friend is a professional photographer so I don't have much else to worry about right??