Hi, i have my dress and it is everything i want it to be, but when i found my gown the attendant helping me put on a cute belt or sash that i wasn't crazy about but really liked the look with my dress. i resolved to not get the belt and have found a few on line that i like but would love some advice from others on which is the most flattering. my dress is a mermaid style with lace all over, sweetheart neck line, and a corset back. i am looking at a few sashes that have a champagne ribbon with a beading that can be worn in the front or on the side (pictures below). My main concern is which is going to be the most flattering on my waist, i.e. not make me look bigger than i am.