I asked my biological father to walk me down the aisle and he did. BUT... My dilemma is that my mom and step-father (and mother-in-law as well) helped financially and emotionally and watched our daughter all night and during any of the preparations that we had to do in the weeks before when i couldn't bring my 3 year old with me. the whole time during the father daughter dances he was saying that HE should have had the first father daughter dance NOT my step-father (which i absolutely do not regret that decision no matter how much grief he gave me) and then when we were opening cards we found out that there wasn't even a card in the box from him and his wife (or her older kids she wanted us to invite for that matter). If he was strapped for money i could understand but he is absolutely NOT - they both work - (he has a county job - salary is listed online and so i know what he makes) and they travel to NASCAR races several times a year all over the US. I tried dancing with him again later night but he STILL talked about he should have had the first dance.... I really don't have ANY expectations for my father anymore. I want to be the better person. Oh yeah and from what i saw and others saw - his wife sat there the whole time not smiling except for 2 pictures (one in the photo booth and one the photographer took of the table) - she had the same look the night before during the rehearsal but at least this time she wasn't constantly on her cell phone texting or playing a game. Anyway, should I give him and his wife a small photo book of the wedding
or just give them a "thank you for attending" card like you do for
those that gave gifts?