SO MY BEST FRIEND IS A MALE! HE LIVES SOME WHAT FAR FROM ME! I WANT HIM BY MY SIDE AT MY WEDDING! BUT I ALSO WANTED TO ASK MY CLOSE GIRLFRIEND TO BE MY "MAID OF HONOR"..THE ONE THAT DOES EVERYTHING WITH ME! OBVIOUSLY MY BEST FRIEND CANT THROW MY BRIDAL SHOWER OR MY BACHORLETTE PARTY ETC... IS THIS OK??