My bridesmaids will consist of my two cousins (who are like my sisters), my two best friends and my fiance's sister. The time is approaching when I'll ask them to be my bridesmaids, but after a long and difficult thought process, I'm deciding on asking one of my cousins to be the MOH since she's like the sister I've never had. So what am I worried about? I know one, if not both, of my best friends will be mad, heartbroken and devastated that I didn't pick either one of them. I know one will be ticked because I was her MOH, and the other one has just assumed she already won the title of MOH in my wedding.
Is there any graceful way to tell them that they'll just be my bridesmaids without them getting angry? I know it's my wedding and I shouldn't be so worked up, but I can already feel the possible anger radiating from them.