I am looking for some advice. I am getting married next summer and I'm currently debating whether or not to have the ceremony in a Catholic Church. I am Catholic but haven't attended church on a regular basis in a very long time (also the church I technically belong to has gone downhill and I absolutely do not want to get married there). My fiance was raised as a Methodist and doesn't want to convert just to get married, nor does he seem very enthusiastic about attending mass with me if we were to join a church. I am so nervous to call different churches in the area because I don't want to be "shunned" for not being a regular church-goer on top of marrying a non-Catholic. Should I suck it up and just start calling? Or should I try a different avenue?