As a lurker for some time I have read so much excellent advice from this board. Now I'm hoping to get some opinions on the location of my bridal shower. My younger sister/MOH has very generously offered to host a bridal shower. She lives with my parents, who have two large energetic dogs and limited space for a 20 person-ish gathering. She asked if she could host the bridal shower at my house. This way the dogs won't be an issue and I also have an open living room/kitchen and a large finished basement that could probably host people more easily and comfortably. I have no problem with having an event at my house, but I'm not sure if it will look like I am attempting to host my own shower (which is not the case!).
So, which is better : shower at my parents house with less space and some disruption from the dogs, or a shower hosted by my sister at my house (better space but may be questionable etiquette wise)? Thanks in advance!