I got married last year. My two brothers were Ushers. We only had 2 bridesmaids and groomsmen each. My brother is getting married this summer and my other brother is in the wedding party, as well as the bride's 3 brothers. I've only been INVITED to their wedding. I went to her bridal shower recently, and he didn't even acknowledge me. I had to go out of my way to make her say hi to me. To give a little back story, the bride has never given me a chance. She is one of the types whose own family is everything, and her fiancé's is nothing. They'll take her mom out for her birthday, but my mom won't get a phone call, etc. Yeah, I don't like her. Maybe she has gotten wind of that courtesy of said brother. The problem is, I love my him! I feel really sad to be excluded from the wedding party like I'm a serial killer or a genuine nobody. I want to just go, but it tears me up inside to be sitting in the bleachers like I mean nothing to them. Am I being selfish? I know it is their day, I'm not trying to cause trouble, my feelings are just really hurt....