My FSIL all but insisted when we got engaged that her now 2 year old be our RB. FI and I had some reservations, but we ultimately acquiesced. (Choose you battles.) RB is now in his terrible twos which are ... terrible. I'm beginning to wonder if he's even going to be able to walk down the isle, and pulling him NOW would cause more problems than it will solve. In any event, whether or not he will walk isn't really the issue ... if he doesn't, he doesn't. No big deal.
Here's my concern. If he's going to walk, I'd like him to carry something, like a sign or a ring pillow, because I'm concerned that having him simply walk down the isle without anything will look ... empty. BUT, I"m unwilling to spend a lot of time or money on making/buying a sign or ring pillow that he may not even carry.
Does anybody have any experience with this? Can somebody recommend somewhere that I can buy an inexpensive, but nice looking, ring pillow ... where if he doesn't carry it, it won't be too much of a $$ loss? (I'm thinking $20-30 at most .. preferably the lower the better.) Am I totally over-thinking this and experiencing 6-weeks-before-my-wedding stress and making it a bigger deal than it is?
Any advice or gentle reality check would be appreciated.