Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. My condo faces southwest, and I'm upstairs, so when it's more than 75 degrees outside, it's likely 85+ degrees inside my condo. More than 90 degrees if God forbid I have laundry to do. I sent in a request in MARCH to get an AC installed. It is now near the end of JUNE, and they are dragging their feet giving me approval to get it installed. It's basically the board president who is dragging his feet. Half the time I email him or leave a voicemail, he tells me he never got my email/message. I'm calling bullshit.
I have told them that I have a thyroid condition, and the heat aggravates it, but apparently that doesn't make them go any faster. I've been physically sick because of the heat, and am becoming a very unhappy and impatient person. I have told them that I will have to move in with my parents if I do not get this approval, I do not want to make my health worse. Maybe they'll get on the ball if I tell them they can pay my mortgage and HOA fees if I have to let my condo sit empty.
I have no patience left with this situation, I am ready to SCREAM at someone! Anyone have any advice?

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We just went through this with FMIL. We ended up having to get a letter from her doctor stating why she needs an AC unit. FI made an appointment with the head of the housing unit (mind you, this is low income housing that she lives in, yet they act like they're on 5th avenue, anyway..) to present the doctor's note, the original request to have the AC unit put in and the deposit for the AC. Once that was done, the AC was installed within 48 hours.
If I were you, I would get the doctor's note, call the President of the HOA and make an appointment and tell them what's going on. Keep calling and emailing, a squeaky wheel gets oiled all the time.
Do you know any of the other board members? Or anyone else in the building who has been in a similar situation? Maybe they could advise on how to get things moving. Otherwise, I second the suggestion of having your attorney send a letter.
As for the window AC, the windows in my living room (which is where it is the hottest) do not open. So I would have to get new windows (which would of course require approval from the HOA) and then approval for the AC unit.
The reason they are dragging their feet is I am requesting a mini-split ductless unit, which no one in our complex has, so it's all new to them, so they want all this information from my contractor. Every time we give them information, they have more questions. Well my contractor gave the board president all the final required info on June 6th. It's been almost 3 weeks since then and I'm still waiting.
I do not know where in the complex the board president lives. If I did, I would be knocking on his door every single day until I get the approval. I don't know what his job is, but apparently he's on the road a lot.
My uncle is a lawyer, if I don't hear back from the board president today, I will email my uncle and have him write up a letter.
The unit I am looking at does have two units, one goes inside mounted in the wall and the other will sit outside on my deck. They have to give approval because it will be something that can be seen outside and because the units will be connected thru a wall so they have to do plumbing inside a wall.
I have already gone to the last board meeting (they only happen once a quarter) and it was discussed there. They said it should be approved, just as long as they got the additional information they required and they got that info more than 2 weeks ago.
How about a RedNeck A/C unit
I'm not a violent person, but my thyroid condition makes me irritable, so when you add in extreme heat and nausea, I'm beyond irritable, so I am ready to punch somebody in the face. Like if I saw him right now, somebody would have to hold me back.
Edit: I typed up an email to send to the community manager of the HOA. Please tell me what you think, if it is too harsh or what. Obviously I'm not in the right frame of mind to know what is ok or not.
I have informed Board President that I have a thyroid condition that causes me to have intolerance to heat. My condo is always at least 80 degrees and in the evenings is at least 90 degrees. It has not been below 80 degrees since about the beginning of May. I have experienced nausea, being physically sick, hot flashes, unable to perform daily activities, and of course aggravation to my thyroid condition.
Anyways, I guess I will have to wait for the letter from lawyer/doctor since I am headed to Mexico today.