My Fi and I live on the west coast and this past weekend we flew to the east coast for his college friends wedding. We checked in at the hotel and then boarded the shuttle to the wedding. We got there at 5pm as it stated in the invite. We were lead into a room for cocktail hour and about a half hour in the bride and groom walked in and started saying hi to people. We overheard people telling them how beautiful the ceremony was. So this is when we knew we were only invited to the reception. I wish they had told us that before we flew across the country. We barely saw them the whole night because the groom stayed by the bar in another room and the bride was outside, not in the reception area. We made a point to find them at the end of the night so we could say goodbye. It all just felt so strange.
The invitation said We invite you to celebrate the marriage of C and E at this place at 5pm. I wish they made it more clear that we weren't invited to the actual wedding. My FI texts with them and they never mentioned it
They are invited to our wedding at the end of August and part of me wants to make them wait outside until the ceremony is over, just kidding