Disclaimer - I'm sorry if this thread makes me sound petty and spiteful. I'm just rather aggravated at this whole situation.
Some of you may know I am pregnant. We have one son already who is 5. We moved from Maryland to Pennsylvania about 18 months ago. So When we moved, our Uhaul was just packed to the very brim and we could not fit not one more thing in that truck. So we called FMIL who has a ton of empty basement space, and this was where our crib was currently residing. We asked her if we could just leave it down there until we need it, and we'd drive down to Baltimore to get it. She said sure, that's no problem at all and she'd just leave it where it was. FBIL's wife got pregnant and had their son in January. She gave them OUR crib without even asking us. According to them, she told them she had called us numerous times to pick the crib up out of the basement and if we didn't get it she was just going to put in a garage sale anyways.
Umm no. She never called me not even once, I would have told her I still wanted the crib. So I see a picture of the babys room all done up online, and yep there's my crib. So when I called FMIL to ask what was going on, she said they asked her if they could "borrow it" and give it back whenever we need it for our next baby. (Obviously the two stories don't match up) She also said in the worse case scenario, she would just have to buy us a new one. So here I am, pregnant, due in December. Nephew will not even be 1 by the time I have our baby. So they will obviously still need the crib.
So FI wants to call his mom and take her up on her offer of buying us a new one! I don't know though, I think that was more or less to shut me up and she really has no intentions of buying a new one. I think this will only stir up drama. But I don't think it's fair I should have to pay for another crib when she gave away something that wasn't hers to give. Obviously if we do say something, it will be FI doing the talking. Do you think we should bring it up, or just drop it? She is never the type of person to follow up on her "offers" so it's not like if we just wait she'll miraculously show up on our doorstep with a crib. We could buy the crib if we have to, but it would be nice to not have to pay $400 over again when we have to take care of all the other baby essentials and wedding stuff coming up.