My dad has recently gotten engaged to his wonderful lady friend, they've been together for 4 years. They're going to be married before my wedding, basically as soon as Dad's suit is finished with alterations, so before we mail invites. She's a very sweet lady who has brought a ton of joy back to Dad after Mom died. I'm really looking forward to having an actual step mother who I can beg advice from - I do already, but felt a bit off asking for really personal advice because I'm weird. She's been a great help with my wedding.
But how do I include her on our invitations?
Doctor Rex Havoc
Ms Love Chaos
and
DF's parents, and so on
Or
Doctor and Mrs Rex Havoc and so on.
Or any other wording?
I know she's not raised me, but she's important to me and she finds me to be her child of her heart and finally being a mother has been a joy to her. I feel it's right to include her, even if it's a minor etiquette violation.