Night before?

PrincessOfHavoc

I was planning on spending the night before in a hotel with MOH and SPG (stuffed puppies girl). Which would be fun, but relaxing. We've been cohorts since toddlers, a night of chocolate chip cookies and milk sounds like our big parties.

But, my dad would love me to spend one last night at home. Probably will be crying a bit, but I'm spoiled and thus really would like the extra attention from Dad. Plus I get it's hard on him, even if I am a grown adult who hasn't lived at home since 17 (college) and he loves my fiance, he still thinks I'm the premature baby who was wearing his wedding band up past my elbow at first and I can't fathom his terror when he could have lost my brother and me and couldn't reach us. So I totally get why this is important to him.

Is it rude to ask my Dad to let MOH stay also, and rude to MOH to stay with my Dad also?

AddieCake

Well, did your dad have any plans for the two of you, like maybe he wants just father daughter time? Or just you being in the house?

larrygaga

I would never feel bad inviting an old friend to my parents house, and they wouldn't care. But if it's supposed to just be dad-daughter time then maybe not.

blabla89

On the one hand, I wouldn't think it rude to invite an old friend over to your parents' house. On the other hand, your dad probably wants some father daughter time. Maybe you could compromise by having the sleepover with your friends the weekend before, as a bachelorette party.

wandajune6

Sounds like an old school sleepover to me!

But you know your audience best: if either would be hurt by the request, skip it.

hikebikebemerry

Neither option is rude.  Both of these people are very dear to you, so they are likely to be able to compromise.  

Did you already have plans with your MOH?  If so, that really helps to make up your mind- it's not fair to cancel plans because other plans come up.

pinkshorts27

My parents invited my moh and her boyfriend to stay with us. Just talk to your dad and moh.