So I wanted to see how most ladies feel about this as I feel im being "unreasonable" and should just let things be.
My MOH and two bridesmaids are planning my bachlorette party, which I am very appreciative and grateful for.. Even way before the wedding planning began, I've said I am not the type to go "clubbing" or do anything too extravagant. My MOH is still a bit young and into the party scene, which is not a problem at all, but I've been way passed that. I have expressed that I would like to do something simple, like a wine-tasting tour or a get together with friends at someone's house but I was told that was boring. MOH tells me to relax and let her plan, but I feel she should also consider what I like and don't like!
My MOH tells me she plans on getting a room in AC (Jersey) and go to a couple of clubs. I can't help but feel a bit annoyed as she even said it herself and knows that I don't like clubs. They ask me what I would like to do, and when I tell them, they reject my ideas! So I am really at the point where I want to tell them they don't have to worry about planning anything and we can do a simple dinner. Would that be "bitchy" of me? I don't want to come across as ungrateful, but I also don't want to do anything I don't care to do.