The Bitch is back.

CMGragain

Well, don't let your men wear tuxedos in the daytime, and think of me!

JCbride2015

CMGragain said:

Well, don't let your men wear tuxedos in the daytime, and think of me!

Well, that would just be tasteless.  I would never think of it!

EverAfer

All the best CMG!

Hugs and prayers.

OnionBreath

Sending you my thoughts and prayers

pinkshorts27

Ah CMG, I was just thinking about you yesterday. Wishing you the best. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. And FUCK Cancer. Breast cancer got FI's mom when he was in 8th grade. 

PrettyGirlLost

I'm very sorry to hear this and I wish you all the best. *hugs*

Aray82

How come the awareness symbol for cancer isn't a giant foam middle finger instead of a color-coded ribbon? Prayers and good vibes your way!!! And chocolate!!!

jdluvr06

Aray82 said:

How come the awareness symbol for cancer isn't a giant foam middle finger instead of a color-coded ribbon? Prayers and good vibes your way!!! And chocolate!!!

I think we should all get together and have a fundraiser and call it the Fuck Cancer foundation

loveislouder

Oh jeeze. Hugs coming your way. I was talking to a (very drunk and incredibly stoned) friend of my fathers this weekend who said right now, the technology were using to fight cancer is the stuff established in the 70's because the big companies can't afford to publicly use the stuff they've come up with in the last 30 years. If that's true I'm going to... Well. Honestly probably just whine about it because I don't know what else to do about it.

PrettyGirlLost

jdluvr06 said:

Aray82 said:

How come the awareness symbol for cancer isn't a giant foam middle finger instead of a color-coded ribbon? Prayers and good vibes your way!!! And chocolate!!!

I think we should all get together and have a fundraiser and call it the Fuck Cancer foundation

That's great!

Can I be the lab manager for your clinical research core facility?  It can be the Facility Utilizing Clinical Tissues- FUCT. 

Angusaur

Big positive thoughts & hugs. You're very strong and brave.

themuffinman16

@CMGragain wishing you an easy recovery with your eye. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as you are battling this. Also... fuck cancer with a sandpaper penis.

climbingsingle

I'm so sorry. I will be sending you lots of good thoughts. I hope you recover quickly. 

birdybride2014

I'm so sorry. What horrible news. Thoughts and prayers with you!

birdybride2014

I'm so sorry. What horrible news. Thoughts and prayers with you!

arrippa

CMGR, you are in my parayers. Miracles do happen and I will be praying for you.

cupcait927

I'm so sorry this is happening. Sending lots of positive vibes and good thoughts to you.

pinkcow13

I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Seriously, fuck cancer.

Liatris2010

Love to you and your family!

SmileDamnit

Devestating news. You & your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there!

emmaaa

I just cried reading your OP and replies. I love that you are looking at this in the most positive way when all I can do is cry for you. I'm praying for you.

sarahufl

CMGragain said:

I wrote my oncologist a letter when she retired this month.  I thanked her for the last six years, which I wouldn't have had without treatment.  I saw my daughter's wedding.  I held my first grandson.  I handled my mother's death and funeral arrangements.  I traveled to Scandinavia, Russia. Portugal, Spain, Italy, and Hawaii (twice).  It has been a good six years.
Ladies, this is stage 4 metastatic cancer.  It is not curable.  It is just a question of how long it can be managed.  I know people who have lived years with stage 4 cancer.  There are also people who went more quickly.  I just want to spend the time I have left in a positive way.  I was sitting in the office of the surgeon talking to his engaged secretary about her wedding.
Thanks for all the kind thoughts.

My dad has a whole mess of terminal cancers. And it really pisses me off when people say "you will fight this!" "you can beat this!"

So I will say this. I wish you the best in time you have left. I hope you get to enjoy yourself and spend time with your family and friends. Cancer sucks. It is literally the worst. But it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and I hope you can make the most of what is a shitty, shitty situation.

Also, all the best to your family. I have, unfortunately, been on the receiving end of this type of news about my own family. And it blows.

beachyone15

I wish you the best and stay strong!

OliveOilsMom

Thoughts and prayers for you, CMGr.

AlexaF2014

I't trying to not tear up at work. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

You have given advice to hundreds of brides, maybe thousands of lurkers. You will live forever in these forums. And you still have a lot of advice to give to some clueless special snowflakes in the next few years. 

i'm sorry if I'm not making sense or not coherent. I'm a little bit choked up.

wandajune6

The PPs have already said things better than I ever could. FI's mom is in a similar place we're all still struggling to get our heads around the situation.

You're an amazing lady and my thoughts are with you and your family.

KeptInStitches

Sending positive vibes your direction. I'm so very sorry to hear this.

Senecaf

I'm very sorry. You have a great attitude about it, good vibes to you.

sophhabobopha

I wish you nothing but the best. You're in my thoughts!

Lizzieyounce

Old reg here, CMGR and I just wanted to let you know that I am praying for you and your family. I don't know what else to say except how sorry I am to hear this news and that I will pray for you.