So my wedding is in November and a lot of my family is asking if we're going to have a registry. My fiancee keeps telling me he'd rather get cash as a gift because he thinks it would be better to have the cash in hand and buy things ourselves. I keep telling him how a registry works (that we can choose what people can buy for us) but he insists on the cash. I don't know what to do because my family keeps telling me to set up a registry and my fiancee doesn't want one! I know I'm the bride-to-be but I feel overwhelmed and this is one of the things I just can't figure out. Can someone please tell me if just asking for money isn't too rude?