I am a bridesmaid to one of my good friends from college, and her sister is the MOH. We set the date for the shower a few months ago, and started bouncing around ideas via email. The MOH pretty much said thanks for the ideas, and that's it. About a month before the shower, I sent her an email asking what was going on, and suggesting that the bridal party divide and conquer to get the shower going, since as far as I knew, nothing had yet been planned. She responded that she had booked a venue, didn't want a theme, was making a few decorations, and just wanted us to run the games. The biggest blow was a day later, when I received an invitation in the mail that said the shower was hosted only by the MOH. She's petty much doing everything herself, and just wants us to do the games and help set up and clean up. So in essence, she is hosting it herself, and making us her work rats. I'm really upset because I kept offering to do things, only to be turned down, and I really wanted to help make the shower special for my friend. Do I bring this up with the MOH? Her sister, the bride? Leave if alone? I don't want to help with the shower if I'm not getting any credit, and don't get to do any of the fun planning part.