So I'm engaged to my lovely fiance who happens to be a woman. Our planning process is stressful enough with family issues and non-gay friendly vendors. Now my sister calls and says that she is searching for supplies for the bachelorette party for me (she likes to do things way in advance, plus she might be a little excited) and all she can find is penises. Now, I know we live in a traditional country where it used to be beleived that marriage was between man and woman, but now women can marry women and still want the party! If there is any form of penis at my party I will be upset, not because I'm just that gay, but because there aren't options for my sexual orientation. I told my sister to just look into buying bachelor party supplies but that just doesn't seem very fair to me. Anybody have any solutions?