So is anyone else having a second invite list for after RSVP's come in?
I have always felt sort of funny about doing this, because I suspect I was on the "B list" for the last wedding I was invited to, and I was so glad to be invited, but I also knew I wasn't considered important enough to be invited the first time around.
I just went to a bit birthday party last night where EVERYONE was talking about our wedding, and a few couples said something along the lines of, "Have a wonderful day, I'm sure it will be beautiful!" I left the party feeling like, these couples probably should have been invited, why didn't I think of this before. My FI even told me a few days ago, he ran into an old friend who actually asked him if he was invited! (I understand no one should ever ask that question) The answer is NO as of right now, but I suppose that COULD change if I do a "B list" ! He explained that we were already over our # for our quest list. Now if we do end up inviting him, he will obviously know he was on the "B list".
My only problem is I originally didn't want my guest list over 100, and I'm already sending invites to 125! Do I just add these people the first time around, or should I wait until after RSVPs come in? Is anyone else suddenly realizing they left out some people?
Just another thing to stress about...