I'm completely embarrassed to even be asking this question.
Background: My second wedding - almost 10 years after the first, no kids. His first wedding. My first wedding was huge and over the top with no budgetary limitations. This time we are paying for everything ourselves.
So here is the question: A band, a really great band, is extremely important to both of us. Columbia, SC doesn't exactly have the most cutting edge wedding industry. There are several companies who are working very hard to put themselves on the map, but what I am finding is that almost every wedding has the same planner, photographer, band, caterer, rentals, and even venue. My band from wedding number one in Charleston was amazing, and so far, I'm the only person I know who has used them. There are very few people who will have been at both wedding one and two with the exception of possibly 10 or so family members and very close friends. Can I use the same band for my second wedding? Obviously I wouldn't advertise the fact, but I would tell husband-to-be if it turns out he likes them and they work into our budget. Please don't judge me! Etiquette is very important to me, and I don't want anyone to feel like I'm trying to pull one over on them. Help!