...what she is responsible to pay for in the wedding. She sent me an email inquiring saying she is not "keen" on the responsibilities, which I am taking to mean she isn't very aware of them and not "keen" by meaning she doesn't like them.
So I'm kinda wondering what to respond back with. Should I tell her what is traditionally paid for, and if so, what do you consider to be traditional for the groom's family to pay for? I am more leaning towards telling her that I appreciate any contributions she would like to make, and we can discuss the matter in person if she likes.
I just don't like the idea of telling her "you're typically expected to pay for ___ , ___, and ___, and it costs x amount," but should I?
For a little background info, we're a month from the wedding. She hasn't really shown any interest until recently, and we've just planned to pay for things without any contributions and have left it to them to approach us if they would like to contribute.