I got into talking with my friend (Amy) the other day. Her daughter (Meg) is in dire straits with her family right now. Meg expressed to her mom how her kids have been invited to birthday parties coming up, but have to decline because they can't afford to bring proper gifts. She was afraid her only option was to regift something, which she didn't want to have to do.
Amy went to the store, purchased some general gifts and gave them to Meg to use. Amy didn't want her grandchildren to miss out on attending birthday parties and to her regifting shouldn't be an option.
Which got me thinking. If I was the young birthday girl, OF COURSE I'd want Daisy to attend, even if her family couldn't bring a gift. I would never dream of approaching someone and telling them that, though. Super awkward. But is there a proper etiquette approved way of letting a family know that even if they can't afford to bring a gift, little Daisy is still welcome? I can't think of any way to express that without it coming out extremely rude and offensive.
I guess this question stretches out to any gift giving event, though.